Nigel reflects on experiences of love, primarily from childhood and through adulthood. They express gratitude for their parents’ support, describing it as both love and responsibility. The narrative emphasizes the importance of self-reliance, suggesting that individuals should only have children if they can adequately support them. A pivotal moment of love is highlighted during the author’s wedding, where they find joy in their partner’s affection despite their perceived shortcomings. The author concludes that love transcends superficial qualities.